
Welcome Back!
We have had so much going on we have not had time to catch up on our blog. In the last two weeks I have had three lessons with my trainer in Southern Pines. It is wonderful to be having regular lessons again now that the weather has cleared up (some) and Jenn and Harold are back from Florida. It had been eight weeks that I did not have lessons. With shows almost every weekend I did not even have time to see Jennifer Lafforthun either. Jennifer and Rex would try and help me in the warm up ring before my rounds but that was not really a lesson. All that is over now and we are back on track!
My lesson on the 22nd was wonderful. The weather was great and Skittles was very well behaved. Jenn had suggested we work on finding a different bit for Skittles that did not need two reins. My hands are small and it is hard to hold both reins. My mom and I visited the tack store the week before my lesson. They were very helpful and showed us several bits they thought would work. We took two out on trial and took them with us to Southern Pines. We really loved the first one we tried but it was too big for Skittles so my mom worked on finding a smaller size when we got home. In our lesson Jenn started working with me on strides and counting strides. She started to teach me I could control the number of strides Skittles takes between jumps. The hardest part was not starting to count before Skittles lands. I kept wanting to start counting too early. Jenn told me that is normal. At the end of my lesson on Saturday Jenn told my mom and dad that Skittles was not the same pony we first brought to her and she is happy with his progress. I love Skittles and was very proud of him!
Then the big exciting news came… my mom and Jenn decided for us to have a lesson on the next Saturday AND Sunday! And the best part was Skittles was going to have a sleep over at Jenn and Harold’s! I thought that was so cool. All last week I thought about all the things I needed to pack for Skittles to spend the night. He needed his blankets because it was going to be cold and we needed to bring his food he normally eats. I knew Jenn would take very good care of him.
This past weekend we packed up and left early Saturday morning for Southern Pines. My mom drove part of the way to practice driving the trailer. It was very chilly on Saturday and my mom was complaining about how cold it was. She always thinks it is cold! My lesson was great and Skittles was a good boy again. At the end of the lesson Jenn told my mom again that Skittles is really doing great. Then Jenn told me on Sunday my lesson would be without stirrups!! Ugh! My mom and dad laughed and Jenn told me that if I want to ride in a pony equitation final I better be good at no stirrups. She said sometimes riders are asked to do entire rounds without stirrups. I knew I was in trouble because I had not been practicing while they were gone.
When we were all done we got Skittles settled in a stall and got ready to leave but before we left the barn Jenn told my mom she had a gift for me. I was so surprised. It was not even my birthday or anything. I opened the bag and saw the prettiest hanging for my wall. It was so big and had two ponies playing. I loved it and told Jenn thank you for such a nice gift.

When I got home I started bothering my mom right away to hang it up on my wall. She tried to tell me to wait and she would get a hanger from the store and hang it properly but I could not wait. I found two nails and a hammer and asked her to hang it up. It makes my room look so pretty. Thank you Jenn and Harold!
On Sunday me and my mom made the drive back to Southern Pines. It was even colder and lightly raining. My dad stayed home to do laundry. Me and my mom had a fun drive back. She bought me my favorite treat for the drive… S’mores Cappuccino! We talked about Skittles’ night out at Solo and my lesson without stirrups. She picked fun at me but then I reminded her she is scared to canter without stirrups and she laughed and said that was true.
When we arrived I ran to check on Skittles. He was in the stall and looked like he was still sleepy!

Jenn told us he had been out for a little bit earlier in the morning and had been a good boy. He is so tiny compared to all of the horses at Solo that I bet they thought he was a dog. The helper at the barn said he was prancing around acting like he was a big boy too!
We got Skittles ready for the lesson and right away I could tell he was going to be full of himself. It was very cold and Solo does not have a covered ring so we had our lesson in the drizzling rain. My mom got a blanket from the car and wrapped it around her ears and hands. As soon as I was warmed up Jenn told me to walk over to her and she actually took my stirrups right off the saddle! I started to trot around but Skittles was being difficult and my leg was slipping back. Finally after wrestling with Skittles Jenn gave me my stirrups back and told me my assignment was to ride every day for 10 minutes without stirrups so I would be ready for the next lesson. Boy was I happy to have them back on my saddle!
Skittles was a crazy little guy. Jenn said the weather was making him very fresh. He even tried to buck once. My mom said he was ready for the pony jumpers on Sunday. After freezing for an hour we all went to the barn to get out of the rain and get warm. We all laughed about the lesson and told Skittles he was a bad boy today! My mom and Jenn talked about upcoming plans while I got Skittles ready. His stay at Solo was over and it was time to go home. It will be two weeks before we go back to Solo. I have lots to practice and will have a lesson with our local trainer before we go back.
We have no shows coming up for several weeks. It has been difficult to find lesson times with so many shows every weekend. Jenn and Harold have a busy schedule and we all think we might have to miss some shows to be able to find time for regular lessons. I will miss seeing my friends at every show but I know it is important to have regular lessons to reach my goal.
Check back for an update on our next lesson and to see video and pictures of my practice with no stirrups. See you then!